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>>>Wednesday, June 28, 2006

我沒有耐心地講，他便無法明白我的感受。我選擇了一種最愚昧的方式，把憤怒發洩出來，卻沒有任何解釋。然而因為我沒有交代，就活脫脫變成一個瘋婦。我問自己，這種感覺很幼稚很可恥嗎？其實覺得不舒服乃常情，事實上這件事在我看來的確能夠處理得叫我好過一點，if he cares。又或者我的感受實在不夠世故，然而溝通亦需要有不恥下問的態度。我不是天才，相處的藝術無法垂手可得。然而我錯誤地選擇了逃避的方式，以為稍作擺弄的姿態即能叫他領會我的不開心，但我從未曾以他的角度思考，事情於他有所裨益又有甚麼不快之理？再者，我的不快 provided that 我有一個預設的位置，而這正正反映我的不智﹕我怎可能 wrong positioned 自己卻不察覺？

:: posted by my lock, 9:55 AM